Wednesday, February 23, 2022

 Faith on the Frontlines: Healthcare Workers Battle Burnout With Spirituality



Michael Fregeau will never forget one of his earliest COVID patients. A small child was brought into the ER with difficulty breathing. Medical staff did their best to help, but the child did not survive.


“Many of us were distraught over the situation and it was very hard to deal with for a period of time,” says Fregeau, a critical care nurse at a rural hospital on the island of Hawaii. In fact, some medical staff needed to take time off after the child’s death to deal with feelings of loss and helplessness.


For the last year and a half, going to work has been “like walking into a war zone,” says Fregeau. “I have to prepare myself mentally. It’s just one major disaster after another. We feel like we want to help people, but sometimes you feel like you’re not doing enough.”


As a former service member, Fregeau worked in a nuclear submarine for three and a half years. “This is much more stressful than anything I went through in the military,” he says.


Before Covid struck Fregeau says that he and his fellow nurses had time to talk about the things they saw or were exposed to. Now, there’s no time for that. The hospital he works at has experienced severe staff shortages and with never-ending Covid cases, there’s no end in sight.


“It takes a toll,” says Fregeau. Some frontline medical workers have traumatic stress disorders while some have turned to drugs and alcohol. Fregeau says what has helped him was turning to the Bible.


“It can alter your thinking. Give you hope. Help you deal,” he says.


His weekly association with fellow Jehovah’s Witnesses via Zoom has also helped to strengthen and encourage him. “We gain a lot of comfort from each other,” he says.


This spiritual focus has helped Fregeau and other frontline medical workers in his religious community battle through the mental and emotional toll of the pandemic.


“What healthcare workers are experiencing is akin to domestic combat,” Andrew J. Smith, Ph.D., director of the University of Utah Health Occupational Trauma Program at the Huntsman Mental Health Institute, said in a press release from his institution.


According to a study conducted by Smith’s group, more than half of the doctors, nurses and emergency responders providing COVID-19 care could be at risk for one or more mental health problems—including acute traumatic stress, depression, and anxiety.


American psychological and psychiatric associations, while not advocating or endorsing any specific religion, acknowledge a role for spirituality and religious faith in coping with distress and trauma.


Lawrence Onoda, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist in Mission Hills, California, noted a number of ways spirituality can help, including giving people “a positive hope and meaning toward life, comfort by looking for answers and strength from a higher power, and a collective shared experience of support and community.”


As for Fregeau, although he continues to see death and distressing situations daily, he says that looking forward to a better future as promised in the Bible is like seeing “ a light in a darkened world.”


(For more information on gaining comfort through the scriptures, please see

https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/peace-happiness/real-hope-future-bible-Promises/)

Thursday, December 1, 2016

Living Handicapped in Hawaii


Living in Hawaii is GREAT, right? Well, it can be, but there can be some negatives too.

So let's look at the positives:
  1. Great weather almost all of the time.
  2. Friendly people (it's called the Aloha Spirit)
  3. Interesting places to see and things to do
Those are the main things that make it a great place to live.


The negatives:
  1. If you live on certain islands, in certain places on the islands (the windward side of most islands for example), the weather is not always great. For instance, The local tourist industry of Waialeale (in Kauai) has promoted it as the wettest spot on earth (sometimes the second wettest).
  2. Like anywhere else, people in Hawaii can be rude. I'm in a wheelchair and I remember a shopper in the local Walmart telling me to "move that thing out of the way". She was referring to my wheelchair. Just today, I parked in a handicapped spot in another location and as I was trying to get out of the car, another car pulled up along side of me in the only other handicapped parking space in the parking lot. A middle aged couple hopped out and went into the Subway shop. They didn't have a temporary handicapped sign hanging from their rear view mirror nor did they have a handicapped license plate. They also pulled the front end of their car up over the wheelchair ramp I was about to use. (Check out the photo)
3. Some places are NOT handicapped accessible. Most beaches are not accessible if you 
must use a wheelchair.

But, I still enjoy the islands. I feel it's a LOT easier to be in a wheelchair here than on the mainland. That's especially true in the winter!